What Every Man Wants in a Woman

By Pastor John Hagee

There are a lot of opinions in our culture about marriage, romance, and relationships—but today we’re not interested in opinions. We’re interested in God’s design. The number one thing men said they are looking for is not beauty, not charm, not personality—it is “a woman who has a love for Jesus Christ.” That’s not just good advice; that’s Bible truth. Jesus declared in Matthew 22:37 that we are to love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, and mind. When a woman loves Christ first, everything else in her life aligns properly. A Christ-centered heart produces a Christ-honoring marriage.

And let’s be clear—God is not embarrassed about marriage, romance, or intimacy. Sex is God’s idea. The Bible says in Hebrews 13:4 that “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled.” From the Garden of Eden to the Song of Solomon, Scripture celebrates covenant love. Marriage is not meant to move from lust… to rust… to dust. It is designed to reflect Christ’s love for the Church—sacrificial, joyful, passionate, and holy. When we follow God’s blueprint, marriage doesn’t lose its sizzle—it finds its purpose.